Steffo Shambo is the founder of The Tantric Man Experience. He has a mentorship program helping men master confidence, sexuality, & purpose to save their marriage from divorce or attract a meaningful relationship.
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1) You can have it all. You don’t have to choose one or the other. You don’t have to sacrifice being a dad who is not fully present with his kids growing up. Most people regret not spending more time with their loved ones.
2) When you have a great relationship that feels alive, and that feels full of confidence and vitality, you will be able to bring that into business and generate more income. You will take bolder risks if you have that confidence.
3) If you really want success in life, you need to ask for support.
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Today’s Audio MASTERCLASS: Why the Quality of Your Love Life Will Make You Way More Money.
[1:29] – Steffo shares something that he believes about becoming successful that most people disagree with.
- There is a belief in the world of entrepreneurship that you must hustle and grind all the time – that the more you hustle and grind and force things, the more successful you will be. There’s another way to do that, and that is through surrendering and flowing from passion.
[3:26] – Let’s talk about making more money by having a great love relationship in our life.
- When we have passion in our life and relationship, it will transfer into our business, the economy, and our finances as well.
- Sexual energy is a life force energy that can create a new life. It’s the most powerful energy out there in nature.
- When you have a great relationship that feels alive, and that feels full of confidence and vitality, you will be able to bring that into business and generate more income. You will take bolder risks if you have that confidence.
[6:05] – Talk about the meaning of transmutation and how it works in the real world.
- Transmutation is a method or technique to transfer sexual energy or passion into more money.
- Not everything is happily ever after. It also takes time and dedication to develop that heart.
[9:11] – Steffo gives an example of living the experience of sexual transmutation.
- Steffo is a living example himself. He created his whole business that is thriving and it’s just doubling every year as he goes on through sexual transmutation.
- In his 9-week program, two people were able to double their income. He started a new business during COVID and it took off – he made more money than he ever has before.
[11:13] – A timeout to thank our sponsors, SiteIt Contest and ZipRecruiter!
[13:46] – The things that high-achieving men struggle with with in relationships.
- The “Walking Head” syndrome, which means men are stuck in their head like a prison, and their wife is complaining that the man is present physically, but not emotionally and mentally.
- The “People Pleaser” who maybe feels guilty that they are at work all the time, or pursuing other things in life, or they are not taking care of the household and their children as much.
[17:04] – What are some exercises or processes that we can use to get closer to work-life balance.
- Take ownership of the situation. Don’t go and blame your wife for things. Focus on your emotional intelligence.
- Include people in your life that are great at work-life balance. Those that are great lovers, great husbands, and role models to their kids.
- Understand polarity. Understand that women find certain things attractive, and others unattractive. When you understand that, you can make her adore you again.
- Ask for help. So many men feel like it’s not manly to ask for help. That is what keeps us tough. If you really want success in life, you need to ask for support.
[21:15] – What can men do to rebuild both love and balance in relationships while continuing to crush it in business?
- Instead of just hustling and grinding until you’re burned out, realize that you can use love-making and passion to increase revenue.
- You can crush it in business and have an amazing love life at the same time. You can have both. You don’t have to choose.
- Take ownership and do something about it. Make decisions and follow it up with actions.
[23:45] – Steffo’s key takeaway and call to action for Fire Nation!
- You can have it all. You don’t have to choose one or the other. You don’t have to sacrifice being a dad who is not fully present with the kids growing up. Most people regret not spending more time with their loved ones.
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