After his wife leaving him because she was no longer attracted to him, Keith Yackey was hell bent on figuring this out not only for himself, but for men everywhere.
Married Game – Be the most attractive version of yourself in 90 days!
3 Value Bombs
1) You do not need to be contrarian to be successful in life.
2) Boring equals boring; fun equals fun.
3) Until you can say that you are the most attractive version of yourself, you do not have the right to be pointing the finger at her.
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Today’s Audio MASTERCLASS: How to Get Your Wife To Want You Again with Keith Yackey
[1:25] – Keith shares something that he believes about becoming successful that most people disagree with.
- He believes that you do not need to be contrarian to be successful in life.
[3:41] – How did you land on this topic?
- He was running a business and earning a lot when his wife left him.
- He realized that running a tremendous and thriving business and having an excellent relationship at the same time is possible.
[6:07] -Keith shares, according to his in-depth research, why most women stop initiating and enjoying sex
- For most women, the main reason is that she has lost her attraction to you.
[8:29] – What are the four dials, and what does turning these dials do?
- Ask yourself, when was the last time you made your wife feel sexy?
- Remember the first time you saw your wife, how you wanted to be the best for her.
- Entitlement leads to apathy. You stop becoming the most attractive version of yourself. That’s when your wife loses her attraction to you.
- The Provocateur equates the four dials.
[11:35] – Dial #1.
- The Parenting Dial
- Are you showing up as a parent?
- Make your wife feel that you’re there for her and you are parenting together.
- Being an amazing father makes most women feel turned on.
[16:09] – Dial #2.
- The Partner Dial
- Make your wife feel that you’re in it together.
- Make sure to support the things that are most important to your wife.
[17:46] – Dial #3.
- The Producer Dial
- Have the ambition and drive for more.
- Have a mission that is bigger than yourself that gets you up every day.
[18:52] – Dial #4.
- The Player Dial
- Show up the same way that you did when you were just trying to win your wife over.
- Go over the top to wow your wife.
- Do something fun together, and remind your wife that she is not just a mom but the hot babe that you couldn’t wait to get into your arms.
- Be the Provocateur.
[21:44] – Why is Cyndi Lauper the greatest American Poet alive?
- Follow and understand Cyndi Lauper’s song, Girls Just Want to Have Fun.
- Boring equals boring; fun equals fun.
- The guy that creates the most fun for him and his wife is the guy that has the most extraordinary intimacy, the most incredible connection, and the most vibrant sex life.
[23:35] – Keith’s parting piece of guidance.
- Until you can say that you are the most attractive version of yourself, you do not have any right to be pointing the finger at her.
- Married Game – Be the most attractive version of yourself in 90 days!
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